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Premarital affairs

Sexuality is an instinct imprinted into the genes of each living creature. Attraction to the opposite sex has been the key factor behind reproduction and survival of each species. Most of the species are born with only seasonal sexual necessities. They mate and reproduce only at limited times a year.
Human beings, on the other hand, have active sexual instincts throughout his/her life; right from the very day he/she discovers his/her sexuality in pre-adulthood. This instinct has found overpowering the cultural advancement we have gained over the past.
Sexuality is only sexuality for all other animals, but human beings have restricted forms of sexuality like pre-marital sexuality and extra-marital sexuality. The main reason behind introducing this restriction is that unlike all other animals we live in a civilized society with strict norms of morality and cultural obligations. The society always long for mature relationships and mutual respect between each member of this society. The main goal behind bringing in the sexual restrictions is that each member of this society should be treated with dignity and not as instruments of fulfilling lust.
Though a human being gains the physical maturity of procreation at the beginning of puberty, he/she is considered eligible for mating and reproduction much later may be after 18 years of age or 20. And also the society insists that a sexual practice outside a marriage is improper and illegal at times.Premarital sexuality is any sexual activity with an opposite sex partner or with a same sex partner before he/she has started a married life. The term is usually used to refer the intercourse before the legal age of a marriage. Adults who presumably marry eventually also fall under this definition.
   Effects of premarital sex
Sex in itself, is not wrong at any age; but premarital sex may harm the mental development of adults in several forms. Premarital sexual experiences, many a times, leads to the misconception that sex is to be enjoyed at whatever ways possible. Forced premarital lovemaking will lead to mental depression and dilemma. Another danger is possible exchange of diseases; as premarital partners may not be aware of diseases that spread through intercourses. Getting pregnant through premarital sex is another disaster. Emotional imbalances and guilt feeling could be the result of most premarital sexual affairs.
    There are also many effects about premarital sex.
 Premarital sex may lead you to sexually transmitted diseases, like Gonorrhea, Chlamydia, Syphilis, Genital herpes and HIV/AIDS.
It separates one from God.
 It separates one from one’s ministering angels
It destroys prayer life.
It destroys one’s love towards the word of God. Danger of Sex Before Marriage
 It may lead to hurried marriage.
It may lead to wrong marriage.
 It removes pure mind.
It leads to unwanted pregnancy. Danger of Sex Before Marriage
 Leads to guilt and fear.
Leads to rejection and disappointment.
Tendency of moving from one sin to another. Danger of Sex Before Marriage
Abortion.
Single parenthood.
 Denies one of eternal home.
 It removes peace of mind.
It opens one to demonic attack.
Untimely death.
 Loss of control of sex drive.
Loss of focus in life.
Persistent lust.
Inability to experience true love.
It destroys unity of love.
 It destroys testimony.
 It breeds hatred and strife.
 It breeds suspicions and destroys trust, It can lead to late marriage.
 Loss of concentration.
It destroys integrity.
Destroys boldness as sin breeds fear.
Sadness and worry.

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